If you see me online but in DND mode, it's because I'm more than likely chatting with someone and I like to give 100 percent of my attention to that one person (or Im making a coffee lol). If you're a buddy leave a message and Ill get back to you..

So let me introduce you to BUM (as she likes to be referred too lol). She also likes to meet new people and to have a laugh along the way. Shes always willing to share her scenes. But be warned, don't upset her as she has a bad temper at times. So I guess I should tell you what really makes her mad.

1. Don't try and cyber with her, she gets very offended and I can't be held responsible for her actions. (There are porn sites for that you know... sshhh)

2. Don't think you can kiss or hug Bum unless you are a family member or a truly valued friend. You wouldn't hug me if you met me in the street, so DON'T do it here.

3. If you start your conversation asking her ASL she may knock you flat on your butt. If anything pisses her off it's that. Correct me if I'm wrong, but isn't that what these homepages are for?

4. Dont enter a chat if you're not going to say anything or expect her to carry the conversation. She hates sitting there looking at a dead beat avatar and NO ONE SAYING ANYTHING. We are all here for conversation people WAKE UP!

5. If you do by chance say something make sure you can say more than hey. Shes fussy, what more can I say?

6. If you happen to stumble across her homepage, don't do an add request. I can tell you right now; if she hasn't spoken to you it will be declined.